My name is Michael Murphy. My father passed away almost three years ago. Although it was a very sad time, this is when the concept of Murphy’s Memories started to come together. Let me explain…
The day after my dad passed, I was sitting at his dining room table with my sister and sister-in-law. They said we had to order flowers for Dad. My father loved his truck. He was very passionate about the vehicle he drove to provide for his family. So, I wanted to purchase a floral piece that represented his truck in flowers. Both women said at the same time “You can’t do that”.
Now, my dad taught me many things. But the first thing he taught me was “Son, you can do anything in life if you put your mind to it.” I’ve lived by those words all my life! So I said “OH YES I CAN”, and left the house on a mission.
I went to the local craft store to find the way.
My gift to Dad
A few hours later, I had built the basic shape of the truck and assembled the wheels. The next day, I ordered three hundred carnations in Maroon and White (the colors of my dad’s truck). I had a few more items to make the truck look like my dad’s, so off to Home Depot I went. That night the truck received its fuel tank, bumpers, headlights, chrome stack, valves and hoses. The last detail was the personalized license plate with his name on it. It was all coming together.
It was time to make this creation come to life! Three and a half hours later, and with help from two of my friends, his truck was a work of art. It made my whole family very proud that I was able to give one last gift to my Dad that would symbolize his pride in me for the rest of my life.
I do have to say, my Dad was a one of a kind type of guy. Saying goodbye is hard for everyone attending a funeral. But my final gesture for him made it a little easier for those who attended. As they approached the casket, there was his truck! When anyone laid eyes on it, it just made them smile! That day my beautiful floral arrangement brought something heartfelt and special to a sad day.
And now I want to bring this gift to the world, and help others celebrate life.
